If that didn’t turn her off, then the subsequent emails from the same men asking why she was an ageist definitely did.
It’s okay to state some basic requirements, such as whether you’re willing to date someone who smokes or who has children.
It’s sad, but many married people troll dating sites, either looking for some action on the side or just seeking validation.
Some practiced daters have a standard letter they send to every single person they find even mildly attractive.
Someone who truly wants to get to know you will take the time to write a personalized message responding to specific items in your profile, not send a generic cut-and-paste letter saying, “Hey girl, I saw your profile and was intrigued …” Think about the hundreds of other people who’ve gotten the same letter, and decide whether you’re willing to accept only the barest minimum of effort.
When we meet a potential love interest in person, we’re taught to look for certain red flags—like being rude to the waiter, calling incessantly or not at all, or claiming that his favorite book is The Da Vinci Code.
When we’re choosing potential dates online, though, we sometimes have little more than a picture and a paragraph to go on.
Next, take a look at your web browser on your computer – is it updated?